I just learned recently that some people thought i gave birth at the public hospital. I was totally shocked upon knowing it because how could these people say that i actually gave birth at the public hospital in Philippines since they weren't there during the delivery of my baby. The first thing that came to my mind was, HOW IN THE WORLD DID THEY KNOW I GAVE BIRTH AT THE PUBLIC HOSPITAL??? Gosh! I couldn't believe it! Whatta news with soooooo wrong details indeed! Instead of getting upset and mad to these people, i just calmed myself down and told my smart brain that instead of confronting these people personally, they are NOTHING and DON'T DESERVE to get my attention and waste my emotion just because of their stupid make up stories and all false details.
Anyway, to those people that i am talking about, i am now informing you officially the FACT that i was supposed to give birth in PERPETUAL SUCCOUR HOSPITAL which is PRIVATE in CEBU, but things happened unexpectedly, i was on a labor not in my due time so when the doctor found out that i was dilating already she called the hospital where i want to deliver my baby to prepare things before i get there, but unfortunately there was no available incubator for my baby and also a private room where i will stay after the delivery because the hospital is fully occupied that time. So the doctor rushed me at CEBU DOCTOR'S UNIVERSITY HOSPITAL which is also one of a very high standard hospital in CEBU. Also, it is very convenient for my OB that i gave birth there because her clinic is just at the ground level to that hospital.
So, IS THIS CLEAR ENOUGH FOR YOU? Next time when you make up some stories, please make sure that it is BELIEVABLE, okay? I will just give you a big laugh for telling people about it. How could you ever thought that i gave birth to a public hospital? And let's say i did, so what's the big deal and what's eating you anyway? As long as i am safe after the delivery and the baby will, why not? There is nothing wrong giving birth at the public hospital, you are just under estimating the capacity of the hospitals in Philippines. By the way where you were born? Did you die? How did you get to the other side of the world if you died when your mother gave birth on you if Philippine hospitals are too risky? Or i suppose your mother just delivered you at home which is very usual back then. Get real! And please drink a little bit of coffee once in a while so you can feel the nerve!
P.S: ANG HALANGAN ANI NGA POST NAGSILI, KLARO KAAYO BA!
Anyway, to those people that i am talking about, i am now informing you officially the FACT that i was supposed to give birth in PERPETUAL SUCCOUR HOSPITAL which is PRIVATE in CEBU, but things happened unexpectedly, i was on a labor not in my due time so when the doctor found out that i was dilating already she called the hospital where i want to deliver my baby to prepare things before i get there, but unfortunately there was no available incubator for my baby and also a private room where i will stay after the delivery because the hospital is fully occupied that time. So the doctor rushed me at CEBU DOCTOR'S UNIVERSITY HOSPITAL which is also one of a very high standard hospital in CEBU. Also, it is very convenient for my OB that i gave birth there because her clinic is just at the ground level to that hospital.
So, IS THIS CLEAR ENOUGH FOR YOU? Next time when you make up some stories, please make sure that it is BELIEVABLE, okay? I will just give you a big laugh for telling people about it. How could you ever thought that i gave birth to a public hospital? And let's say i did, so what's the big deal and what's eating you anyway? As long as i am safe after the delivery and the baby will, why not? There is nothing wrong giving birth at the public hospital, you are just under estimating the capacity of the hospitals in Philippines. By the way where you were born? Did you die? How did you get to the other side of the world if you died when your mother gave birth on you if Philippine hospitals are too risky? Or i suppose your mother just delivered you at home which is very usual back then. Get real! And please drink a little bit of coffee once in a while so you can feel the nerve!
P.S: ANG HALANGAN ANI NGA POST NAGSILI, KLARO KAAYO BA!
"Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent." —Eleanor Roosevelt—
14 comments:
Naku naman po, sino ba sya, they don't know what happened talaga and they are making up stories. Besides, it's none of their business naman. So what, di ba!? Pasagdi ka na sila Darl... [wink]
Btw, panghatag sa imong ginamos nga lap-ot bi. Nakapangtulon kog laway dah!
Darl,there's nothing wrong with giving birth in a PUBLIC HOSPITAL!Ngano man masuya man sila ug public man galing?
Pero for sure,wala siguro sila kataak sa Cebu Doctors ba so they thought nga public.Pero sagdi lang gud.Ma public or private,there's nothing wrong with it.Or nabuhi pa to imo little girl dili man ni ma build ning giving birth sa PUBLIC.UNsa gud tawn....
Ayy kaila ko kinsa na sila uy, mga suya-on kaliwat mga law-ay raba ug nawong ug mga great pretender kaau. Mga feeling rich bisan way ika buga...feeling guapa ug feeling superior na sila, feeling sila ray naka balo. For them to know, bisan asa pa matawo mga bata if pag buot ni Lord kuha-on niya wa jud bisan unsa pa ka high-tech noh. If America is so high-tech kay mao jud na laha reason why not in America wa unta mamatay na tawo diha. Little brain gyud nang mga bayhana Darl's bahala na klaro kaau ni akoa pasulonga sila nako kay dila ra way labod nila. Pasumban taga bukid then nakatongtong sa USA nagtuo bright na sila ug knowledgeable di gani kamao mo english, balintuwad agi puryagaba lang pud. English nako bayabas kaau pero ilaha tanglad jud.
Hay feeling na sila.....kay ngano ug private may magbuot? Mura naman ilaha talikdan Pinas gud nagtuo ug asa sila pauli pinas ra japon. Iyara di manakod nga kina-iya intawn.
Pasayloa....but you are right, rant it out jud aron tagam na mga hilabtanon.
Hello dai Darl, pasagdi nalang na oi kay ikaw ray maghungot ang dughan din cge gehapon na cya or cla ug panglibak ug cge panghilabot sa kinabuhi sa ubang tawo kay dili makontento sa kaugalingon, ipahulay nalang na lisod bag-o pa raba ka nanganak.
Kulang sa pansin na ang tawag ana dai. Kung ako man galing na dai...na sultihan nalang teka I don't care gyud sa kinabuhi sa uban kay dili ko gusto hilabtan sad ako life dri kay nag hilum2x rako dri kay pobre rasad mi uyamot tawon....
Simply_haze hehehe sorry but usa nako ana nagkabaliktuwad ang english hehehe trying hard kaayo ko baya..considered nalng gud kay dili mani atong dialect.
whew, this is just crazy darl, that i don't even know where to start! hahaha! why those gossips man oi? and the topic is whether public or private hospital? ug ako ma-doctor, unya mouli sa pinas didto mag work sa public hospital, i-look down diay ko ani? hehehe... katawa ko sa comment ni haze, super flawless jud. lols bitaw oi, LIFE ISN'T OURS TO KEEP. though it has a huge advantage to give birth here in the US because of the hospitals' equipments and stuff, the fact is, IT IS GOD WHO IS IN CONTROL. so bisan ma-public or ma-private man didto sa pinas, pagbuot japon ni Lord ang matuman. mas lamang jud nuon sa private ang ang public hospitals didto, kulang naman jud sa mga gamit kay tungod sa ka-pobri sa atong mahal nga nasud, BUT, i have older sisters who gave birth to their children in a public hospital, ang mga doctos, competent man japon. mao ra man gani japon nga mag doctors ang mo-duty sa private.
time pa, kinsa man diay ning mga tawhana ni nga himuon man ug issue ang public hospital, nga kita ra ba sauna, nangatawo ta, mananabang ra, wala gani certified midwife. hehe... of course, i am talking to most of us here nga wala nangatawo sa hospital. duh oi, nagpatuyang na nuon ko diri.
mo second the motion lang ko kanga haze ba. is that because "they" have lived here in the US himuon nila nga dakung issue ang public hospital? salig sila kay sa america sila nanganak? si haze pa, pa-pretend sila nga knowledgeable pero ang inengles balintuwad? hahaha! now that gives me a LOL really.
have a great week aheaddarl oi. nagpatuyang na nuon ko!
RARE JONREZ, i agree gyud, but darl. dont mind nalang oi, life too short so let's enjoy ourlife to the fullest mahumot, or mabaho,ma private or ma public kong time na gyud nato abo ra gihapon ta paingon...so control your mind darl....dli malipay si precious ana...
P.S. TO: HAZE, intwon ikaw nalay sabot sa mga eninglish, namo saon nag kat on paman.I agreed nga nanangkong gyud nang akong mga maninglish kong naka basa ka sa blog..sigi lang PRACTICE MAKE's PERFECT man diba..PEACE HAZE....
Darl I saw this post yesterday and I really want to leave a message pero padulong na mi lakaw. Anyways, let's not try to add injury to the injured. Bura naman sad mangduot nasakita na gani ang tawo. Kalma lang ka diha kay lisud na. Basta all I can say is I third the motion from Haze and to Recel. Stay cool may panahon ra sad na sila. Pasalamat gani sila wala mahitabo nila ang nahitabo nimo. Mangduot pa. Remember you are loved.
Go na Haze!
BTW, if kinsa man na nga tawo, wala siya siguro ka basa sa imong post about asa nga hospital because I remember it clearly nga ni post ka paghuman nimo ug panganak. Sos magbayad ug mahal sa plane ticket unya di ka afford ug private hospital? Saon nalang! Not that there is wrong with public (although daghan jud dapat i-improve), sa balay ra man gani ko gipanganak si papa ra ang nanabang ni mama. Na buhi man lagi.
kanang pstska ug panabi ani mamu mga salut na sa kalibutan...lami kaayo panitan ang simod ug lapwaan ug ilawog sa tirong..laming silian na ilang mga gitz aron mo kirig kirig sa ka halang...wa nila huna hunaa nga nasamaran naka samutan pa ka nila ug samad..mga walay balatian ng mga tawhana..laming panitan.
ay o oi.. second da mosyon pud ko ni titser in, bisan ako balay rako panganak baya ha pero wa baya ta nangamatay ay.. ug nganu jud iduot ug ipaka ilawm maayo ang kakayahan sa Pinas.. kalouy sa pobreng nasud dapat itaguyod iduot na noon maau mao pay nag agonto ug nag aginod nag kuyaig pa jud maayo.
cge lang mamu kay ang ligid magtuyok man jud d man sila permi naa sa ibabaw.. ugma damlag sila napud ibag-id ug panitan maayo sa kabatohan.
Hi Darls.. First I would like to extend my deep sympathy for the lost of your child. I did not find it out until I visit your blog. It's a sad thing the this kind of people talk nonsense things in time like this. They should learn to to respect your feelings especially at time like this. Who ever say those idiot things should know what they are talking about before spitting it out. So whats the big deal of giving birth in the public hospital? There's a lot of people who where living today including me who did not born in any kind of hospital. If it's God decisions to take away the child there is nothing we can do about or even the most advance medicine in the world. My sister in Law gave birth to the private hospital but still the baby died. Not all babies who were born here in US survive too.She should have thought of that before even saying idiotic words and she/he should apologies to you about it too..
Anyway never mind those kind of people anymore..The most important thing is that you are well and safe now. Just think that you are love by those people who are true to you not those to like to rot you.. God Bless Girl..;)
Actually I was surprised reading some comments of your post in one of your blogs which I think not helpful but insulting. I was impressed though that you didn't say anything at all at that time unlike others who got mad if you say something that is not supposed to be mad about. I don't know why there are individuals in this world who are mean but I know that it's none of their business if you choose a private hospital or not. I am very much familiar of Cebu Doctors' coz I graduated there. Take care and keep away from those negative thinkers coz they won't do any good to you. :)
kuratan pod ko baya aning imong post darl uy hehehhehe. kataw-anan nga mkapungot sa mga tawongong mg buotbuot ug istorya bah.... ay pasagdi na sila arang kay nakatungtung ug america feeling dili na maabut. sos preho ra baya tang tanan malibang ug baho hehehhehe. nakurat lng na sila ug tumotumo ug istorya... suya lng na sila. Ngano diay ug public hospital way problema na basta manganak ug tarong diba.... Hhehhehe ako gani ni uli mi atong marso nya ng paibut ko ngipon sa public ra hehehhehe ayo tong cheap kay i love bargains hehehehhe
I can relate to this post kay I was one of the many that left a comment doon. However, no matter what we all said, it should not have any bearing sa whether naka private or public ka, saka not all of us were born under the circumstances ng baby mo. The fact is, ang majority ng people nowadays believes so much what the western world has to offer kaysa third world nga indeed lacking the equipments in case of emergency. Daghan na bitaw namatay because of that, my uncle almost died just waiting for a Doctor to attend to him sa subrang dami ng tao in line. However, in my case din, here usahay pag poor ka lang you are treated medyo poorly din, so I can't exactly tot a horn on the U.S but can't generalize either kay not all ay the same. Ma public man or dili, after all, comments ay only comments, though dapat maging considerate ta. We can never assume lang kay bastos yan. I object lang kay Haze...LOL, puros naman ta wapa ah, kinsa ba ang mukhang model na flawless?...LOL. Saka to say na "Beauty is the eye of the beholder". Di dahil akala natin beautiful ang isang tao or ugly di ibig sabihin no'n na ugly or beautiful na rin sa iba. Hay buhay talaga oo. Let's not be labeled as Fils na walang breeding/mudo na it doesn't take much for us to get violent, the world is much more civilized na kasi ngayon eh. So, peace to all of us nalang. Comments lang to not to be taken literally or seriously na ikamatay ng tao. As for the English thing, we are all in learning unless one claims to be fluent in it. We all came from the same background; no one is better off.
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