Not so long ago i posted in Bisdak Planet about a filipina girl that received denial from the embassy for her visa instead of approval.I feel so bad both sides(Guy & her) coz things didn't work out for them.The guy told me from the time he got the letter from the embassy that the girl he is petitioning has two current american petitioner.He was very dissapointed & depressed of what happened.After all of what he's done,it came up this way,FAILURE.So he seek for an advice to my husband what he should do now.So we told him to tell the girl to call the embassy & cancel the first petitioner coz as what the girl told us she met the first guy way back 2005 & she didn't like him coz he's just playing girls.So,the girl called the embassy & the embassy told her to wait for one or two weeks coz they're sending her some instruction of what to do with her situation.That was 3 weeks ago when she told me that but i haven't heard from her since then.I was online yesterday & the guy buzzed me.I asked him how's it goin' lately,he answered me like he's giving up!Then i feel sudden sadness in my heart.That poor girl!Maybe she didn't know about what's her fiancee's thinking right now.Her fiancee told me that he sent money to her so she can start small business in her place,coz when she had her interview in the embassy her fiancee asked her to resign from her current job.And now she doesn't have in come already & just depending to her fiancee's financial support.Poor girl coz her fiancee is starting to think that he might look for someone new.And i cannot stop him for doing that coz he needs companion & if that girl can't be with him then he's probably right to find someone new.I don't think long distance relationship would work just fine. Coz relationship is all about bonding & being together for each other no matter what, isn't it?Do you agree about that?Coz that's my concept of having relationship.I am just hoping that things for them will be settle & it will work like what they're wishing to happen.All i can give to them is a piece of advice & a prayer that hopefully it's gonna work fine & what they have right now is just a big trial for their relationship. Godbless for the couple.
"Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent." —Eleanor Roosevelt—
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kabootan sa lalaki oio gi padad-an jud sya pang business..bitaw lahi jud kong layo imong palalabs..wel i think its time for the guy to move on..i felt sorry for the girl too..hay life..pero sagdi lang mabuhi na sya k naa na sya negosyo..bulahan jud ang ma asawa anang lalakiha..thanks for sharing it to us dae darlene..
Hala oi, kalooy sad sa babae no pero hmmm siya man gud oi ngano sad nga wla niya gipa cancel ba dayun sa embassy...hala oi trials lang na nialng duha maayo unta ang lalaki tas on pa niya ang iyang pasencya ug mo wait gyud.basin ma settle ra na nila.
aww, what a sad situation. I really feel bad for them, and of course much more for the girl. ang sa akin lang, they should not give up, kelangan tyagaan lang. mangulit sila sa embassy, lalo na yung US citizen ah, he's an american citizen and he has the right to complain. ang problema kasi sa embassy they're not all jiving kamo. napansin lang namin, daming ibat ibang sitwasyon about petitioning, sa totoo lang we have a lot of family friends before who came into the same situation, tama yun ipacancel na lang iisa lang naman ang kelangan mag petition and that's the present petitioner. sa tingin ko those people who denied her was just giving her a hard time. sa totoo lang, give your friend an advice not to give up, push it through once more, dahil the first time ma deny is not the end of it, kelangan magtyaga si lalake if he really loves the girl very much diba? hayy, nakakainis talaga ang mga embassy people sa totoo lang. when I petitioned my hubby around 2003 the next year he had an interview, akalain mo bang nagpakita pa pala yung first petitioner sa mga records ng hubby ko when he was 8 yrs old, hindi nila alam yun? muntik syang nadeny, but for us that's invading someone's privacy bakit nya sinabi yun diba? anyways, basta sabihan mo friend mo na ipetition nya ulit, tignan mo papasa sya, that's just baloney, mga taga embassy minsan walang pakundangan minsan. ipacancel na lang yung una diba. ano ba yan, sorry nagkwento ako dito, nakakainis lang kasi pag nadedeny mga kapwa natin pinoy eh.
you have a nice day, sis!
Poor girl feel sorry for her.
napaka stupid naman nung girl.. right from the start she should have known what will happen. she knows that somebody had already petition for her, then she should had been honest about it to this 2nd guy.. kawawa naman yung guy.. at least man sana na remedyuhan pa and they wont get this far na hanggang sa medeny. of course! talagang ma dedeny siya! what is she thinking? if she dont like the 1st guy then why she let him petition her? she should have told the embassy about it d bah? Consul is very strict they will question your motives. its such a waste.. nakakainis ang ganitong kwento.. lol.
WHAta a very sad situation...I feel sory for her too... there might be a way, they shouldn't give up.....
Oh my gosh i feel so sorry for this girl. I'm sure she doesn't have any idea what's going. How come she got two petetioner already? This is a really sad story, I feel sorry for both of them . Probably the first man of this lady file petition and they have some problem and she decided to end the relationship while the petition is still going on. Also she could tell the first petitioner to cancel the petition and she can do the same to the other petitioner so she can be with the man that she really love and happy to be with.
It's hard when things like this happen. Right now i guess this lady should talk to her fiancee and try to work things out. If they truly love each other they should work each problem they encounter. I can feel there sadness and i hope everything will be fine.
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