Depression Is Wicked

Do you have a loved one that is undergoing depression? Or maybe a dear friend? I knew someone that is currently undergoing depression, although she is not a close friend of mine but i worry about her. Her family are far away from her and her friends hardly visits her due to their hectic schedules. I tried to visit her once in a while so to check on her if she needs my help and my comfort. I feel for her for she most of the time just being by herself and no one to talk to. And being alone is the most worst thing that should happen to a depressed person. I was gonna advice her to seek for a mental health treatment but she might misinterpret what i want her to think.

It's not that she is going insane, i just want her to improve her self-esteem which is rapidly going so low lately. I hope i can do more for her but i also have family to take care of. I already searched some mental health treatment centers just in case if she wants to go then i am ready to give her the places that she can go to. But the problem is, i don't know how to start the topic with her. I am worried and at the same time hesitant to talk to her about her condition. Since we are not that close to each other, that kind of stops me from telling her that she might need to see a doctor for her condition. I just hope that when i visit her next time, i will see some close friends of hers or a relative so i can give the information about the mental health treatment directory i have researched for her. She really needs help and i don't want to see her gets worse.

It's Just Hard

I just had another surgery last Thursday. My gall bladder was taken out because it has stone in it and it is not functioning anymore. It wasn't as big as my C-section but it sure is hurting me. I had 4 spots in my tummy aside from my C-section for it is what the doctor called a SCOPE OPERATION. Everyday i am slowly recovering and hoping that i can get back to my daily routine so soon. I have to get better and gain my strength because i have to take care of my kids, especially the newborn one.

I must say that it is indeed hard to give birth and undergone operations without someone who can help. I am missing my mother i guess, i am feeling so depressed right now. I have to take care of my kids and to be fully recovered at the same time, it's just too hard to do it. It is still difficult for me to move around due to my incisions although it is getting better but still i have to be very careful not to move too much or i will feel the pain again. I wonder if i am feeling the post partum depression? I hope i will get over this very soon, i don't like it and it is bad for me to feel depressed i know but how can i get rid of this depression i am feeling right now? Wish my mother is beside me during this time that i need her the most....